Sex Therapy New York


I come across a number of books on the subject of sex and sexuality. These are a few of my favorites because they align with the principles of my practice and offer my patients valuable insights and suggestions:

The New Male Sexuality

“The New Male Sexuality” by Bernie Zilbergeld

This book is a comprehensive guide to enhancing desire and arousal that focuses on pleasure rather than performance and keeping sex exciting and fulfilling. It is a classic that maintains it’s relevance today.

How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure

“How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know, by Lou Paget

Lou Paget offers men who desire to please the women they adore, a refreshingly modern, tastefully explicit, and completely honest guide to giving women absolute pleasure. It is fun to read and inspires to experiment. A companion book is available for women who want to learn more about pleasuring a man: “How to be a great lover”

Reclaiming Your Sexual Self

“Reclaiming Your Sexual Self: How You Can Bring Desire Back Into Your Life,” by Kathryn Hall, PhD.

Kathryn Hall takes a refreshingly new look at why so many women today are not interested in sex. This is a uniquely helpful book for women providing sensible suggestions for overcoming sexual inertia and finding genuine satisfaction.

Coping with Premature Ejaculation

“Coping With Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner & Have Great Sex,” by Barry W. McCarthy PhD, Michael E. Metz PhD

Written as a resource for couples, this book contains the latest, scientifically based methods for overcoming all types of premature ejaculation and includes a complete relapse prevention program. The authors expose the myths of male sexual performance and analyze male sexual desire.


“Toygasms! The Insider’s Guide to Sex Toys and Techniques,” by Sadie Allison

Dr. Sadie offers a tastefully illustrated and unabashedly enjoyable read that offers dozens of proven techniques for getting the most pleasure out of sex toys and enhancing orgasms. It includes inspiring ideas that will add instant enjoyment to lovemaking and masturbation.

barbach book

“For Yourself : The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality,” by Lonnie Barbach

This classic from 1975 maintains its relevance in this edition from 2000. It is a simple, straightforward guide to explore female sexuality. Informative for both men and women.